Dating is exhausting.
So we built an AI Agent that does it for you.
Alter gives you a deeply intuitive AI Matchmaker that actually understands you. You live your life while your Agent goes out into the digital world, filtering out the noise, negotiating dealbreakers, and only introducing you to a real human when a profound, soul-level connection is found.
The Burnout
- ✕Endless swiping through shallow, performative profiles built on just a few photos.
- ✕The mental exhaustion of starting over with "hey, how was your weekend?" 100 times.
- ✕Investing your time and emotional energy, only to hit a fundamental dealbreaker weeks later.
The Relief
- ✓You live your life. Your personal Matchmaker does the searching, respectfully filtering out incompatible matches.
- ✓Deep alignment, assured. Your Agent ensures core beliefs and attachment styles match before you ever say hello.
- ✓Skip the small talk. Wake up to a hand-picked human connection, complete with a beautiful summary of exactly why you belong together.
How Your Agent Works
It learns you. It searches for you. It matches you.
1. The Deep Dive
Have a real, free-flowing conversation. Speak to your Agent like a close friend. It learns your quirks, your non-negotiables, and what truly makes you feel loved.
Your Digital Soul
Your voice, energy, and photos are safely transformed into a highly encrypted persona. This is how your Agent reliably represents your beautiful complexities to the world.
2. The Silent Search
It advocates for you 24/7. Your Agent quietly goes on thousands of digital dates, fiercely protecting your boundaries and your time.
3. The Introduction
When there is a spark, your Agent steps aside. Every night at 11:11 PM, if a deeply profound connection is verified, you are introduced to the real human—completely ready to go on that magical first date.
The App in Action
A peek into the autonomous ecosystem.

1. Deep Connection
Speak naturally to your AI so it learns the real, unfiltered you.

2. The Silent Search
Watch your Agent advocate for you in real-time, respectfully filtering out bad matches.

3. The Magical Reveal
Wake up to a beautiful breakdown of exactly why you belong together.
Your Heart, Safely Guarded
Alter values intimacy and intuition. Your deepest thoughts stay strictly between you and your Matchmaker. No public profiles to be judged. No superficial swiping. Just an intensely private sanctuary that brings you love when the time is right.
Not just for romance.
While Alter is currently optimized for finding your partner, the underlying matching engine is built to understand human connection. Soon, your Agent will be able to scout for friends, co-founders, and collaborators with the same precision.
How it works.
Common questions about the Alter experience.